{"id":3595,"date":"2023-09-30T17:56:43","date_gmt":"2023-09-30T16:56:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/?p=3595"},"modified":"2024-01-02T22:47:55","modified_gmt":"2024-01-02T21:47:55","slug":"szepsegkultusz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/magazin\/blog\/2023\/09\/30\/szepsegkultusz\/","title":{"rendered":"Sz\u00e9ps\u00e9gkultusz"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">A fiatal l\u00e1nyok k\u00fcl\u00f6n\u00f6s dilemma el\u0151tt \u00e1llnak tizen\u00e9ves korukban: test\u00fck \u00f6n\u00e9rt\u00e9kel\u00e9s\u00fck k\u00f6z\u00e9ppontj\u00e1v\u00e1 v\u00e1lik, a test sz\u00e9ps\u00e9ge \u00f6nbizalmuk fontos eleme lesz, egy\u00fattal azonban elbizonytalan\u00edtja \u00e9s megzavarja \u0151ket. Ez az a dilemma, k\u00e9tely, amely \u00f6nbizalmuk cs\u00f6kken\u00e9s\u00e9hez vezet.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:6,&quot;335551620&quot;:6,&quot;335559739&quot;:225,&quot;335559740&quot;:276}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">A tin\u00e9dzserkor el\u00e9r\u00e9s\u00e9vel a l\u00e1nyok \u00f6nbizalm\u00e1t nem n\u00f6velik az iskolai eredm\u00e9nyek, saj\u00e1t erej\u00fck m\u00e1r nem el\u00e9g arra, hogy pozit\u00edv k\u00e9pet kapjanak magukr\u00f3l. A n\u0151v\u00e9 \u00e9r\u00e9s a l\u00e1nyokat a sz\u00e9ps\u00e9geszm\u00e9nnyel \u00e1ll\u00edtja szembe, amely a n\u0151is\u00e9g eszm\u00e9nye is egyben, de el\u00e9rhetetlen. A n\u0151 \u00f6n\u00e9rt\u00e9kl\u00e9se f\u00fcgg\u0151v\u00e9 v\u00e1lik a f\u00e9rfiak elismer\u00e9s\u00e9t\u0151l. Nagyon plasztikusan \u00e9rz\u00e9kelteti a fiatal n\u0151k f\u00fcgg\u0151s\u00e9g\u00e9t a f\u00e9rfitekintetekt\u0151l \u00e9s az ezzel \u00f6sszef\u00fcgg\u0151 sebezhet\u0151s\u00e9get Simon Beauvoire francia szociol\u00f3gus A m\u00e1sodik nem c\u00edm\u0171 klasszikus feminista m\u0171v\u00e9ben, amely az 1960-as \u00e9vekben jelent meg.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:6,&quot;335551620&quot;:6,&quot;335559739&quot;:225,&quot;335559740&quot;:276}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u201eAz els\u0151 testi v\u00e1ltoz\u00e1sokkal, f\u0151k\u00e9nt melle n\u00f6veked\u00e9s\u00e9vel a fiatal l\u00e1ny sebezhet\u0151s\u00e9ge n\u00f6vekszik. \u00dagy \u00e9rzi, test\u00e9nek nem parancsolhat, kics\u00faszik az ir\u00e1ny\u00edt\u00e1sa al\u00f3l. Ugyanabban a percben pedig a t\u00f6bbiek t\u00e1rgyk\u00e9nt kezdik kezelni \u0151t. Az utc\u00e1n szem\u00fckkel k\u00f6vetik, megjegyz\u00e9seket tesznek test\u00e9te. A tov\u00e1bbiakban a l\u00e1ny valamif\u00e9le pozit\u00edvumot is szerez ezekb\u0151l a tekintetekb\u0151l, \u00fagy \u00e9rzi mag\u00e1t, mint egy titokzatos t\u00e1rgy, a v\u00e1gy t\u00e1rgya.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:6,&quot;335551620&quot;:6,&quot;335559739&quot;:225,&quot;335559740&quot;:276}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Ez az \u00f6r\u00f6m azonban nem tiszta: B\u00fcszkes\u00e9g\u00e9ben, hogy mag\u00e1ra vonja a f\u00e9rfiak figyelm\u00e9t, csod\u00e1latot v\u00e1lt ki, l\u00e1zad az ellen, hogy lassan beker\u00edtik. Pubert\u00e1skor\u00e1ban megtanult sz\u00e9gyenkezni. \u00c9s a sz\u00e9gyen \u00f6sszekapcsol\u00f3dik a kokett\u00e1l\u00e1ssal \u00e9s a hi\u00fas\u00e1ggal. A f\u00e9rfiak tekintete h\u00edzeleg neki, egy\u00fattal s\u00e9rti. A tekintetek mindig t\u00fal m\u00e9lyre hatolnak. Hogy a l\u00e1nyok elker\u00fclj\u00e9k ezt a sebezhet\u0151s\u00e9get, a k\u00f6vetkez\u0151 f\u00e1zisban mesters\u00e9ges sz\u00e9ps\u00e9ggel v\u00e9dekeznek: Az arcuk is \u00e1larcc\u00e1 v\u00e1lik. Az eredm\u00e9ny: A tekintet m\u00e1r nem \u00e9ri el \u0151ket, hanem visszaver\u0151dik. A test m\u00e1r nem \u00e9l, hanem v\u00e1r. De ez a v\u00e9delem sem t\u00f6k\u00e9letes. B\u00e1rmilyen sz\u00e9p legyen is a l\u00e1ny, sosem lehet teljesen biztos \u00f6nmag\u00e1ban. Nem lehet biztons\u00e1ggal b\u00fcszke a test\u00e9re, m\u00edg hi\u00fas\u00e1g\u00e1t nem er\u0151s\u00edtik meg a f\u00e9rfiak. \u00c9s \u00e9ppen ett\u0151l retteg, f\u00e9l a szeret\u0151j\u00e9t\u0151l, a f\u00e9rj\u00e9t\u0151l, a bar\u00e1tj\u00e1t\u00f3l\u2026<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:6,&quot;335551620&quot;:6,&quot;335559739&quot;:225,&quot;335559740&quot;:276}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Ez a viselked\u00e9si forma azokra a n\u0151kre jellemz\u0151, akik ki\u00e1br\u00e1ndultak, iskolai v\u00e9gzetts\u00e9g\u00fck nincs vagy nem megfelel\u0151 sz\u00e1mukra, s nem l\u00e1tnak m\u00e1s lehet\u0151s\u00e9get maguk el\u0151tt, mint a partnert\u0151l val\u00f3 f\u00fcgg\u0151s\u00e9get, teh\u00e1t a t\u00e1rsadalmi \u00e9rt\u00e9kel\u00e9st is f\u00e9rj\u00fck\u00f6n, partner\u00fck\u00f6n \u00e1t l\u00e1tj\u00e1k el\u00e9rhet\u0151nek. \u013agy test\u00fck v\u00e1lik alapt\u0151k\u00e9j\u00fckk\u00e9, a divatos \u00f6lt\u00f6zk\u00f6d\u00e9s, a make-up, test\u00fck \u00e1pol\u00e1sa egyetlen es\u00e9ly\u00fck. Ez\u00e1ltal szem\u00e9lyes hatalmuk van a f\u00e9rfiak felett, akiket a sz\u00e9ps\u00e9g elvak\u00edt. Ez a hatalom azonban nagyon t\u00f6r\u00e9keny: A sz\u00e9ps\u00e9g ut\u00f3pi\u00e1ja el\u00e9rhetetlen.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:6,&quot;335551620&quot;:6,&quot;335559739&quot;:225,&quot;335559740&quot;:276}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3596 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/magazin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/2023_09_30_001.png\" alt=\"sz\u00e9ps\u00e9gkultusz\" width=\"940\" height=\"374\" srcset=\"https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/magazin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/2023_09_30_001.png 940w, https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/magazin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/2023_09_30_001-300x119.png 300w, https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/magazin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/2023_09_30_001-768x306.png 768w, https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/magazin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/2023_09_30_001-570x227.png 570w, https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/magazin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/2023_09_30_001-270x107.png 270w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:2,&quot;335559739&quot;:195,&quot;335559740&quot;:660}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A fiatal l\u00e1nyok k\u00fcl\u00f6n\u00f6s dilemma el\u0151tt \u00e1llnak tizen\u00e9ves korukban: test\u00fck \u00f6n\u00e9rt\u00e9kel\u00e9s\u00fck k\u00f6z\u00e9ppontj\u00e1v\u00e1 v\u00e1lik, a test sz\u00e9ps\u00e9ge \u00f6nbizalmuk fontos eleme lesz, egy\u00fattal azonban elbizonytalan\u00edtja \u00e9s megzavarja \u0151ket. Ez az a dilemma, k\u00e9tely, amely \u00f6nbizalmuk cs\u00f6kken\u00e9s\u00e9hez vezet.\u00a0 A tin\u00e9dzserkor el\u00e9r\u00e9s\u00e9vel a l\u00e1nyok \u00f6nbizalm\u00e1t nem n\u00f6velik az iskolai eredm\u00e9nyek, saj\u00e1t erej\u00fck m\u00e1r nem el\u00e9g arra, hogy pozit\u00edv k\u00e9pet [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":3596,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[42],"tags":[59,55],"class_list":["post-3595","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-konnyed","tag-onbizalom","tag-viselkedes"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3595","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3595"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3595\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3597,"href":"https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3595\/revisions\/3597"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3596"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3595"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3595"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/phoenix-ngo.sk\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3595"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}